8 Tips for Preparing for Labour from a Brisbane Newborn Photographer
- Jun 4
- 4 min read
I am a planner. Spreadsheets, schedules, colour-coded calendars. If there is a system for something, I have built it.
So when I fell pregnant with my first daughter, I did what any planner does. I researched labour like it was an exam I needed to pass.
My birth plan turned out to be some music on my iPod (no whale sounds, I have standards) and a request that my husband tell me the gender when the baby arrived. Everything else was a white-knuckle ride I held on to and waited to end.
Here is what I learned: you cannot plan labour. But you can prepare for it and yes, there IS a difference.
Preparing for labour means understanding your options, building your support and going in with enough knowledge to make good decisions in the moment, whatever that moment looks like.
These are the tips for preparing for labour that actually held up for me.
1. Build Your Support Crew First
Think carefully about who you want in that room and what role each person is there to play. This is not the time for an open-door policy.
If you feel like you could do with more support beyond a partner or family member, look into hiring a doula.
Research consistently shows that labouring with a doula present is associated with shorter labours and lower rates of medical intervention. They are there for you, not for anyone else in the room.
2. Look Into Hypnobirthing
Hypnobirthing teaches self-hypnosis techniques that help manage fear and pain during labour. You can start courses from around 20 weeks, and they give you tools to calm your nervous system from the inside out.
This is not crystals and candles (unless you want it to be). It is breathing, mindset and preparation. Worth looking into well before your due date.
3. Try Raspberry Leaf Tea from 36 Weeks
Four cups a day from 36 weeks gestation has been linked to shorter labours and reduced pain. At around $5 a box from Chemist Warehouse, it is a low-risk thing to try.
Check with your midwife or obstetrician before starting, as it is not recommended before 36 weeks.
4. Keep Moving Through Your Pregnancy
Gentle core work like pregnancy yoga helps your body prepare and strengthen for labour. Staying active is one of the most consistent pieces of advice across midwives, obstetricians and birth educators.
Look for pregnancy-specific classes in your area rather than adapting a regular fitness class.
5. Use the Shower During Labour
Warm water running over your skin, particularly your lower back, provides real relief during contractions. Most hospitals and birth centres have shower access in labour rooms and you are fully entitled to use it.
A practical note: the longer you can manage without pain relief, the more effective it tends to be when you do need it. The shower can buy you time.
6. Have a Distraction Plan for Early Labour
Labour can be long. Early labour especially can go on for hours with contractions that are uncomfortable but manageable.
Having something to do in those early hours helps. You might do some last-minute tidying, watch a film or paint your nails. The goal is to keep your mind occupied so you are not watching the clock.
Music and essential oils can help in the later stages too, when distraction takes a different form.
7. Stay Home as Long as You Can
[IMAGE: Woman at home in early labour, relaxed and comfortable. Alt text: "Staying home in early labour Brisbane newborn and maternity photographer Natarsha March"]
Research consistently shows that heading to the hospital too early can slow labour down or cause it to stall. Being at home, in a familiar environment, keeps your body relaxed and your labour progressing.
Stay home until your care provider tells you to come in, or your contractions are in a consistent pattern your midwife has given you a clear plan for.
8. Change Positions Often
A term I kept coming across in my research was UFO, which stands for upright, forward and open. Positions that use gravity to help your baby move into the right spot. Leaning over your kitchen bench, the back of the couch at home or the side of the bath in your labour room all count.
Other positions that can make contractions feel more manageable include being on all fours, sitting or gently rolling on a Swiss ball and lying on your side.
There is no single right position. Move, listen to your body and change when something stops working.
The Most Important Tip for Preparing for Labour
Keep an open mind.
When we lock onto one vision of how labour will go, we set ourselves up for disappointment when reality does not match it. And in my experience, it rarely does exactly.
Preparing for labour means educating yourself about your options, building trust with your care providers and giving yourself permission to make different decisions in the moment than you planned.
You will meet your baby at the end of it. Hold onto that.
One More Thing Before Your Baby Arrives
You are in full preparation mode right now, which means your newborn session is worth thinking about too.
The newborn photography window is the first two weeks of life. That is when babies are sleepiest, most curled up and most cooperative. It goes faster than you think.
If you would like to explore a newborn session, I would love to hear from you before your baby arrives so we can hold a spot.
Oh, and also - if the maternity images in this post caught your eye, the best part is that:
MATERNITY SESSIONS ARE COMPLIMENTARY WITH ALL NEWBORN BOOKINGS.
About the Author
Natarsha March is an award-winning Brisbane newborn, baby and family photographer with over 15 years of experience and more than 1,600 families photographed. She is known for her relaxed, stress-free sessions where mums and kids actually enjoy themselves (yes, it is possible). Based in Bunya, Brisbane, Tarsh creates natural, heartfelt images that focus on real connection, not stiff poses. If you are looking for a trusted photographer in Brisbane who makes the whole experience feel easy, Family Photography by Natarsha March is your girl.
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